Trust

Trust is a big word. It can be important to some of us or it might not. When I was young, my mum would always said ' nic, don't simply trust anybody , alright ?' I guess my response was ' yes, mum' but totally forget about in just a few seconds . I mean well what is so important about it anyway for a 3 years old child to know about trust. The same phrase was repeated by my mum again when I was in primary school. I didn't pay much attention to that word until I was in high school. I guess high school is really a place for us to grow . Trust can be use in any sentence or in any terms when we are talking. It can be just ' bro, I trust you man.' or it can be ' I trust you with this money' . Whenever we use the word trust on the particular matter, it is either personal or business. I personally think trust is harder to practice in personal than in business because at least in business, you are serious with the word trust but not when we are using it in our personal lives. I mean c'mon what is so damn important about the word that require us to practice in our daily lives too. Well, I guess people who have integrity will practice it and treat it with much gratitude. In our conversation, most of us will nicely remove the word 'I trust you ' to ' don't say anything about it alright' to make it less serious in a way. We all try to avoid use the word because we know it is not a word to toy with. I don't know why a lot of us like to say that trust has to be earn ? Why can't it be trust should be given to people who deserve it ? I mean instead of earning trust , why can't we let ourselves to take it as a gift from our friends. Earning something is so much harder than receiving it. Well , maybe I like to receive it because I believe that if I am a person who have good value and personality , then I don't see a problem in need to work it. I will have more pressure to earn it from someone than receiving it . I am not sure about others because I personally feel pressure when someone is trying to gain trust from me because it makes me to be a person that need to give you trust because you have done the all the right things to take it from me. I prefer to be the one that gives you willingly because I am willing to take  any circumstances if the trust given to you has been abuse by you. Lastly, trust is like a paper, once it is crumpled , it can't be perfect.